What must happen in order for me to feel successful?
I must work, fully present and consistently, 8 hours a day, 5 days a week knocking on doors. Taking only a 30 min
break for lunch and a 15 min break to organize call backs. I must make one pump up call a day.
I must sell 2 apps a week in order to feel successful.
Failure: Not working consistently
What would I do if I knew I could not fail? Work with family heritage! Sell 25,000 units my first year. As long as
I'm on the field, I haven't failed!
I AM IN CONTROL. NOT MY ENVIRONMENT!
THE PAST DOES NOT EQUAL THE FUTURE!!!
What is the price I will pay if I do not free myself from fear of rejection?
I will lose the best opportunity I have ever had. I will lose the friends that I have in this field. I will lose the freedom of spending time with my friends. I will be trapped in my low self esteem. My daughters will learn this from me. I will always be worried about money.
What will I gain if I free myself from rejection?
I will gain freedom, pride, spending time with my children. Financial freedom. Being able to say that I accomplished something when so many, namely Hiep, said that I couldn't. I will know that I am a powerful woman that can accomplish anything just as I always thought that I was. I will set a good example for my children. I will be able to enjoy life knowing that I live it on MY terms. I will not bow to fear. I am above it and I control it.
In order to feel rejection, someone must be able to show me that I have consistenly given up on my goals. When someone does not share my views, closes the door I AM NOT REJECTED!
If someone declines a gift, to whom then does the gift belong? To the person that offered it. I decline the gift of abuse and rejection.
The only way I can feel rejected if someone says something and I agree with that person 100%. People are not rejecting me, only my ideas or their impression of me in that moment.
MASSIVE REJECTION IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS! If no one is rejecting me, I am probably not doing something right or doing something insignificant.